I hope to answer some of those questions in this article. Some guys experience a knee-jerk reaction after a breakup and start dating again immediately. You see, a breakup is an emotional wound, and – like a flesh wound – it needs both time and care to heal.One doesn’t send an injured athlete back into the field until he has fully recovered. You want to give yourself the chance to reflect on your breakup, process your emotions and become a wiser man because of it – before you step into the dating arena again. Well, you are the only one that can provide that answer.
If I could invent a pill that would cure heartbreak, I would be a rich woman.Some tell tale signs you are not over your breakup, however, are: So take a moment and analyze your motivation for a second.Do you want to start dating again for extrinsic reasons such as: wanting to show your ex you’re over her, or, wanting to speed up your recovery?One of the hardest aspects of a break-up is being alone with your difficult thoughts and intense emotions.However, sitting in those tough times and getting through them makes you more resilient and allows you to mourn the relationship, which is necessary to move forward in a healthy manner.But how will you know when you’re ready to start dating?